Friday, December 21, 2007

"_Someone i have lost long time ago_" Comment.

If you have lost someone close to you, how do you deal with the toughest moments
that hit you and don't always give you warning?

Sadness and suffering make people wiser -
Sadness and suffering will follow us as long as we live -
If you can no longer feel these emotions, it's a sign that you have
stopped growing as a person.
Sadness and suffering enable us to be strong enough to be kind to others.

When a loved one is gone, you'd look for his or her image in everything that you see,
and everything that's within you seek an exact image of how you'd like to see your loved one again, pay an attention when you love again to the one you are loving, as not being your loved one substitute.
Take a good look around you: paying too much attention to what you have lost, lets you neglect what you have/in now.
Look into the bottom of your soul and find what you really need.

Think of loving, and not of being loved.
If there is someone who is in more pain and sorrow than you are,
Give him or her your loving hand and warm support...
feel to be felt...
You have the ability to comfort others to become comforted

4 comments:

rihabe said...

It was just with those people we loved that we could enjoy all the times, we could know all the smiles .
with those people ,we were full of life and happiness that brightened all our days, but unfortunately,when they are gone,we find ourselves filled of tiredness and fears ,,loss and tears,,,,,
But ,,their memory still shines in our minds , we can do nothing but close our eyes and feel their loving arms, if not we can love the others and give of ourselves, simply because the more we give the more happiness we get !,,,
And if I am wrong , feel free to correct me
,,,rihabe ,,,

Anonymous said...

It was just with those people we loved that we could enjoy all the times, we could know all the smiles .
with those people ,we were full of life and happiness that brightened all our days, but unfortunately,when they are gone,we find ourselves filled of tiredness and fears ,,loss and tears,,,,,
But ,,their memory still shines in our minds , we can do nothing but close our eyes and feel their loving arms, if not we can love the others and give of ourselves, simply because the more we give the more happiness we get !,,,
And if I am wrong , feel free to correct me
,,,rihabe ,,,

Anonymous said...

i like this one too much

Anonymous said...

well, i lost someone i know only for one day, and u can tell, i kept searching for him by every possible mean..
he never answered... :(

can u just tell him that i missed him.